Some of us are love seekers, some of us are hiders.
Avoid the habit of pushing people away who want to love you. Especially when you’re struggling.
I understand that you’re intensely private –
or you don’t want to make a big deal of your current situation –
or you don’t like the attention spotlight on you –
or you don’t feel like you deserve to be loved…
Newsflash! You do. No matter what.
Let the people who want to love you do it.
Let them bring you tea.
Come over just to check on you.
Ask a few inane questions.
Treat you like a little kid.
Love is the thing that gets us through. Try not to push people away.
PS: Solitude is different than isolation.